“One day at a time sweet Jesus, that’s all I’m asking of You. Just give me the strength to do everyday what I have to do.” lyrics by Meriam Bellina
Currently, I have friends and family members who’s lives are in turmoil. Every day brings a new wave of stress and distress. There’s seldom a break in the fray and the future looks dim. Depression is often a bedfellow. Paranoia and paralysis h are closing in.
How do we respond to friends and family members when they’re going through hell on earth?
First, we empathize with them. As deeply and sincerely as possible, try to feel as they are feeling, and offer words of comfort.
Secondly, we pray with them when we’re together and for them when we’re away.
Thirdly—and this must be said at the right time and in the right way—I give this advice: “Do what’s in front of you and then do the next thing.”
Elizabeth Elliott, Christian author and speaker, said it this way, “Sometimes life is so hard you can only do the next thing. Whatever that is, just do the next thing. God will meet you there.”
The next thing might be something simple and ordinary: unload the dishwasher, get out of bed, read a book, take a walk. Or, the next thing may be more strategic: apply for a job, go to church, tackle a problem head on, initiate a difficult but necessary conversation.
Just keep moving in the right direction; even baby steps are helpful. You can’t steer a bicycle unless it’s moving, so keep moving.
Often, you will be the one who is stuck, so say to yourself, “I’m going to do what’s in front of me and then do the next thing.” It’s a simple, almost simplistic strategy, but sometimes it’s just enough to get us unstuck and moving in the right direction.
So true, the courage to do the next thing is so important. Many years ago I heard Dr. John Lakin Brasher, a great preacher/evangelist in his late nineties, really an orator, make that point in a message saying “always be ready to shake your head this way (up and down motion) as the Lord leads”. Simple but profound, especially when trials or grief overtake you.
Sandra, thanks for taking the time to respond. I love that phrase “always be ready to shake your head this way (up and down motion). Take care, Don.
Don, this is SUCH wisdom. A friend gave us that exact advice during our experience of “hell on earth”. It became our modus operandi: “Just keep doing the next right thing.” It is so hard (when you have been a highly functioning person) to feel so absolutely impaired by circumstances. By God’s grace, and one tiny baby step at a time, movement happens… and in time… hope, meaning, purpose…
Thanks, Shauna, for sharing your thoughts. I like your addition of “just keep doing the next right thing” (right). And I appreciate “one tiny baby step at a time, and movement happens…and in time…hope, meaning, purpose.
Thanks for your testimony.
Great word!!!!
Thanks, Gary, for taking the time to respond and for reading my post. Take care, and thanks for our friendship. Don
Thanks Don. I seem to need this advice often. Now, if I can just remember it.
Thanks, Rick, for taking the time to respond. I have to remember this thought often. Take care, Don.
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The Meaning Behind The Song: One Day at a Time by Cristy Lane
One of the most beloved and timeless country gospel songs of all time, “One Day at a Time” by Cristy Lane, holds a special place in the hearts of many. With its poignant lyrics and heartfelt melody, this song has resonated with listeners around the world. Let’s delve deeper into the meaning behind this remarkable piece of music.
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The Journey of Acceptance and Faith
“One Day at a Time” chronicles the journey of acceptance and faith in the face of life’s challenges. The lyrics reflect the universal struggle to overcome hardships and find solace in the present moment. Cristy Lane’s soulful and emotive interpretation of the song amplifies the depth of the message, leaving a lasting impact on listeners.
The song begins with the powerful line, “I’m only human, I’m just a woman.” These words immediately set the tone, acknowledging our inherent imperfections and vulnerabilities as individuals. It serves as a reminder that we all face trials and tribulations, but it’s our response to them that defines us.
As the song progresses, the lyrics emphasize the importance of relying on faith and taking life one day at a time. The line, “Lord, help me today, show me the way, one day at a time,” encapsulates the core message of the song. It encourages listeners to surrender their worries and fears to a higher power, finding strength and guidance in the present moment.
A Message of Hope and Resilience
Throughout “One Day at a Time,” there is a recurring theme of hope and resilience. It serves as a comforting anthem for those who may be going through challenging times, reminding them to stay strong and persevere.
The lyrics speak of finding solace in prayer and seeking divine intervention during difficult moments. By doing so, listeners are encouraged to develop a sense of trust and surrender, allowing them to overcome adversity.
Furthermore, the song highlights the transformative power of patience and gratitude. Rather than dwelling on past regrets or anxiously anticipating the future, “One Day at a Time” urges individuals to embrace the present moment. It emphasizes the need to appreciate life’s blessings and focus on personal growth and self-improvement.
Cristy Lane’s emotional rendition of the song adds another layer of sincerity and authenticity to its already powerful message. Her unique ability to connect with listeners through her vocals and convey profound emotions is a testament to her artistry.
In conclusion, “One Day at a Time” by Cristy Lane is a timeless hymn that continues to encourage and uplift listeners around the world. Its message of acceptance, faith, hope, and resilience resonates deeply, reminding us to face life’s challenges with courage and grace. Through her heartfelt performance, Cristy Lane has immortalized the song and ensured its lasting impact on generations to come.
Frequently Asked Questions
1. What inspired Cristy Lane to write “One Day at a Time”?
Cristy Lane did not write “One Day at a Time”; it was actually written by Marijohn Wilkin and Kris Kristofferson. However, Cristy Lane’s powerful rendition of the song propelled it to great success and made it synonymous with her name.
2. Has the song received any awards or accolades?
While “One Day at a Time” didn’t receive any major awards, it achieved immense popularity and success. The song topped the Billboard Hot Country Singles chart in 1980 and remained a chart-topping hit for several weeks. It also became a crossover success, reaching the Billboard Hot 100 chart.
3. How did “One Day at a Time” impact Cristy Lane’s career?
“One Day at a Time” became Cristy Lane’s signature song and catapulted her to stardom within the country music genre. The song’s success introduced her to a wider audience and paved the way for a successful music career, earning her numerous fans and accolades.
4. Are there any cover versions of “One Day at a Time” by other artists?
Yes, “One Day at a Time” has been covered by various artists over the years, including Marilyn Sellars, Merle Haggard, Willie Nelson, and Johnny Cash. Each rendition brings a unique interpretation to the song, preserving its timeless appeal.
5. How did “One Day at a Time” impact listeners?
“One Day at a Time” resonated deeply with listeners, offering them comfort and strength during challenging times. Many fans have shared personal stories of how the song helped them navigate through difficult moments and find solace in their faith.
6. Is “One Day at a Time” solely a religious song?
While “One Day at a Time” carries strong religious undertones, its message of hope and resilience transcends religious boundaries. The song speaks to the human experience and offers a universal message of finding strength in faith and taking life one day at a time.
7. Are there any live performances of “One Day at a Time” by Cristy Lane?
Yes, Cristy Lane has performed “One Day at a Time” live on various occasions. Her heartfelt performances have captivated audiences and further amplified the emotional impact of the song.
8. What is the significance of the song’s title?
The title, “One Day at a Time,” holds profound significance as it encapsulates the core message of the song. It serves as a constant reminder to focus on the present moment, overcoming challenges and embracing life’s blessings one day at a time.
9. Has the song been featured in any movies or TV shows?
Yes, “One Day at a Time” has been featured in several movies and TV shows over the years. Its timeless appeal and emotional resonance make it a popular choice for soundtracks, further exposing the song to new audiences.
10. How has “One Day at a Time” impacted the country gospel genre?
“One Day at a Time” has become an iconic song within the country gospel genre. Its enduring popularity has helped solidify the genre’s presence and influence within the larger music industry. The song’s inclusion in various gospel music compilations further showcases its significance within the genre.
11. Have other artists covered “One Day at a Time” in different musical styles?
Yes, “One Day at a Time” has been covered in various musical styles, including pop, rock, and R&B. Different artists bring their unique interpretations to the song, providing listeners with diverse musical experiences while still preserving the essence of the original composition.
12. Where can I listen to “One Day at a Time” by Cristy Lane?
“One Day at a Time” by Cristy Lane is available to listen to on various music streaming platforms, such as Spotify, Apple Music, and YouTube. It remains a cherished song for fans of country gospel music and those seeking comfort and inspiration in their lives.
Bill, thanks for taking the time to respond. I enjoyed reading the article you sent.
As to who wrote the song…Google is confusing me. One entry says Marijohn Wilkes wrote the lyrics, another says it was Patsy Cline. Your’s says Christy Lane. Oh well…it is a great song. Take care, my friend. Don
All tasks can seem impossible when you are suffering from physical, mental or emotional pain. Sometimes we need to be beside our loved one or friend and do that next job together. Not taking over but just making the job/chore bearable.
Some progressive diseases can vary in their intensity from day to day and something that the person plans to do is just not possible on the day so do cut them some slack.
For those who have been bereaved, the mountain of administration can make the loss seem even more overwhelming. Where a spouse has died, just bothering to make a meal can seem too much. A friend bringing some food and sitting and eating it together gives some temporary relief from the concentration on the place at the table that is now empty.
Throwing yourself into activity to push away your grief can be a mistake and the grief may come back to haunt you later.
There’s some good Biblical advice. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.
Angela, as always, you share significant thoughts. In your retirement, you should be a counselor. Years ago I was in a difficult season of life when just doing the simplest things was very hard. Fortunately, that time passed. But it made me more empathetic to those who are going through similar situations. Thanks for your responses.
Oswald Chambers had a similar philosophy:
https://utmost.org/updated/taking-the-initiative-against-despair/
Perry, thanks for sharing these thoughts from Oswald Chambers. They are life-giving. And thanks for reading my posts. Take care, Don
Since losing our precious daughter, Candace to the devastating GBM cancer, we can only do the next thing, which can be difficult on some days. We lean on Elizabeth Elliot’s advice a lot nowadays. We lean on Jesus more than ever too. 😢
Mike and Karen, I am so sorry to hear of Candace’s passing. I remember her as a little girl. I hurt for you and the pain you carry. Know that I care for you. Don
Great word, Don.
We were never called to see what lies dimly in the distance; only what lies closely at hand.
Marty, thanks for sharing that sentence. You’ll probably see it in an upcoming post :). Take care, Don.
Amen! What sage advice. I have some family members who need to read and heed.
Gail, thanks for taking the time to respond. We all need this word of encouragement. I spoke it to myself yesterday. Take care, Don.